The most important thing to remember when you’re starting a new relationship? So, you’ll wanna pull those punches, and make those kicks more symbolic than they are forceful.
Balls can and do rupture, and the risk of doing real harm can’t be eliminated. But when it comes to balls and impact play, a little impact goes a long way. Punching and kicking – more fun things to do with balls. Husband recently discovered he likes to be punched in the balls. (Tugging does not mean yanking! Yanking is not recommended!) Pressure – gentle to start – can feel great, so add squeezing and tugging to your game. Seeing someone who wants to fuck your spouse will remind you of all the reasons why you wanted to fuck your spouse…įun things to do with balls? Sucking ‘em, caressing ‘em… what else is there? I worry my testicular game is getting stale. The point isn’t to go home with someone else or to take someone home together, but to see your spouse through other people’s eyes. One additional suggestion: time together in a place (a bar, a club, a party) where people routinely flirt with strangers. Any other ideas?Įxercise and time apart will definitely help. How do we get the sexy back? So far exercise and time apart seems to be helping. Parenting young children during the pandemic has not resulted in much sexy time in my marriage.
If you were moving to a new place, what would your first sex act be to break in the new place and what room? We can’t decide where to start.įor me it would be a toss-up between the conservatory with the candlestick and the library with the lead pipe. We are moving to a new house next month, and looking forward to making new sex memories. I think 15-16 is a good age to start reading and listening – but if you really want your teenager to read my column and listen to my podcast, don’t point them toward Savage Love and the Savage Lovecast. While you work on finding the right dosage, e.g., the dosage that alleviates your depression without killing your libido, a little going-through-the-motions with your partner will keep you in the groove and may even help you catch a groove.Īt what age would you recommend I point my teenager to your column and your podcast? Talk with your doctor about adjusting your meds – that’s the first step.
I’m on anti-depressants and my libido has been ZAPPED! How to brainstorm sexy time when you don’t feel sexy? Ask your doctor if they’re right for you. How do I delay orgasms?Įvery time this subject comes up, someone recommends low-dose SSRIs. I’m that rare thing: the one-minute woman. Keep telling yourself that being friends with exes is a good sign about your S.O., and then carry that thought to its logical conclusion: being jealous and paranoid about your current being friends with his exes is a bad sign about you – not a fatal sign for this relationship, but definitely something you should work through with a shrink. I know it’s probably a good sign that they are mature, but it makes me jealous and paranoid. is good friends with a number of their exes. (That is a baseball pun just for my older brother. I will not – while I am sure you’re lovely, I already have a husband, and a boyfriend in the on-dick circle. “You can douche all of the bottoms some of the time, and some of the bottoms all of the time, but you can’t douche all of the bottoms all of the time.” – Abraham Lincoln The oceans will rise and the planet will bake and we will be arguing about whether “cake” can be a pronoun as the meteor hurtles toward earth. And it’s going to be even more confusing than it is now, and everybody is going to get everybody else’s orientations, pronouns, and flags wrong all the time, and absolutely everybody is going to be upset with absolutely everyone else, all the time. In the future everyone will have their own niche sexual orientation for 15 minutes – and their own neo-pronoun and their own pride flag. Do you think we will keep seeing significant changes in sexual-orientation-self-labeling in the future?